The Seven Habits of Happy Kids

 

Habit #1 Be Proactive – I’m in charge of myself (my actions and attitude).

• I have a “Can Do” attitude,and  I do my best.
• I follow directions and do the right thing without being asked, even when nobody is looking.
• I chose my actions, attitudes, and moods and don’t blame others for my wrongdoing.

 

Habit #2 Begin with the End in Mind : I plan ahead and set goals for myself.

• I am prepared.
• I think about the choices I make and how will affect my future.
• I think about the positive or negative consequences of my actions before I act.

 

Habit #3 Put First Things First: Work first, then play

• I do the things that I HAVE to do before  I do  the things that I WANT to do.
•  I stay focused on what I am doing and try to minimize distractions if I go off task.
• I spend my time on the things that are the most important.

 

Habit #4 Think Win-Win: Everybody Can Win

• I am a PROBLEM–SOLVER when an issue comes up with another person.
• I think about what other people want and not just what I want.
• I am kind to others and try to think of ways to help everyone to be happy.

 

Habit #5 Seek First to Understand, Then To Be Understood:  Listen before you speak.

• I listen to others without interrupting.
• I raise my hand when I want to speak and wait patiently to be called on.
• I don’t blurt out.
• I try to understand other people’s views and feelings, even if they are different from my own.

 

Habit #6 Synergize:  Together is better.

• I get along well with other people and work well in groups.
• I value the strengths of others and allow myself to learn from them.
• I work together with my team or learning group or partner. We get more done and come up with better solutions than I could have alone.

 

Habit #7 Sharpen the Saw:  Balance is best.

• I take care of my body by eating right, exercising, and getting enough sleep.
• I balance my time between school, church, extracurricular activities, family, and friends.